~Spoilt Brat and Spoilt Brats??? A Perfect Match!!! (Irritating People Part 1)~
Was thinking bout some of the spoilt brats that I know and it dawn to me why they are actually really good frens with each other and kinda in a so-so relationship with the majority even though they are really friendly etc???
The number 1 top reason is that they are a bunch of rich, worry-free kids that is so fortunate, having so much money to spend, nothing to do and nothing to worry about "real life" that they keep thinking that their little little miniture worries they have which is actually non-existance in the first place was the greatest thing in the world???
And guess what,they will make such a big fuss about their little mini non-existing problem to normal avg family people and actually expect you to sympathise with their.... wat should I call that???....mm... bullshit???...mmm that a gd phase to descibe their problems.
In case u guys and gals are wondering mm... wat bullshit I am talking about??? Here a few examples illustrated.
Case No 1:The Crybaby (dun actually need to cry but is the I am going to act innocent and everybody hv to let me win else...I cry!!!)
For example crying at every single moment when felt unjust (take note: is when the crybaby feel unjust not neccessary that there must be unjust done to him/ her. ) Situations applies to crying in front of big gp and public area. OK I MUST BE FAIR this CASE ONLY APPLIES to those who cry more than 10 times in public in front of a bunch of people in 2yrs???
Take my word there are people like tat...weird u may think but to them well its perfectly normal as they do it all the time just that U didnt manage to see them in the act ALL THE TIME.
There are actually more things in life to cry bout... think bout the poor people around in the third world countries..wat is our problems compared to them. Think bout disabled people, they dun cry in front of public when really mean people give them looks I just cant understand why those spoilt brats can cry in public wat kind of sympathy they hope to gain...arent they fortunate enough to appreciate life and why their parent never ever hint to them before that they are other more miserable people suffering out there in the world and that they are not able to shelter their kids forever???
Case No 2: The I take things for Granted Guy/ Gal
They have these complain:
1. Why do my parents want me to study why they keep pushing me on decison on my Degree/ Master/ PHD....I want my own life!!! I failed my exams....sobsob (PS: but i didnt study even I hv the perfect enviroment to do so.)
2. Why my parent dun give me more freedom, I wan more money to go shopping etc...I want a better car even though I am living in hostel (cause driving to school beats sitting the 5min shutter bus and I need to drive my frens around)
The only thing I have to say to them is to go look at the news dun just open your eyes open ur hearts as well. Think of those people who want to study but yet cant due to family problems. And because of these they continued to remained poor despite how hardworking and how hard they tried. (I understand that rich people may not need to study as their family may have enough fortune for them to spend in their life time fine...its their decision...but dun complain to others....if they want to throw away all the "xing fu" and the paved path their destiny hv given them fine just dun add it to others' misery.)
I have frens who really wish to go into uni but just do not hv enough money...having to support their family or being abandon by her parents... I used to hv a primary sch tuition kid that have to go help up at her parent food stall everyday even during the period of her psle...do she hv a choice...do her parent hv a choice... NO!!! They were too poor to hire a extra worker the $1000 they earned bearly meets their ends if they hire a worker for one month they will be in debt.
Talk about shopping??? They are worried bout food??? Yet is sad to see that spoilt brats are complaining bout shopping, better cars, freedom. Freedom???...my tuition kid dun even hv the freedom to study (btw in case u r thinking no money still tuition???? I gave her free tuition cause my mum noes her mum.)
Case No 3: The I am the most pathetic person in the world (Because I am a spoilt brat you hv to let me win....and btw I am really innocent in all decisions took so pls understand and dun bully me plsplspls???? Oh I am so INNOCENT ;) and you noe wat I even do charity work.... PS: btw I am perfect and if u are more perfect then me ok...I hate you.)
Somebody once told me "my atm and credit card (which by the way is her the parents bank) is cancel by my parents. What am I going to do? I am broke This is so unfair!" (Reason of cancel...well she got a new car and spent like thousands of dollars on yahoo auction.)
That was what I wanted to tell her:"Gal I am more broke then u ok u cant even handle ur shopping bills wats there to complain. I hv to handle my study loan which I have borrowed for my degree course and save up money for my master couse which will cause $32000... oh which by the way is cheaper then the price of your new car???"
And ya btw wat is the charity wk when he/ she even refuse to buy tissue from a cripple uncle or or dun even feel compassionate to the 70plus years old uncles working in Macdonald. (Stating the reason: Oh its good for them to wk they should contibute to society)
Excuse me!!! Mr and Miss rich and wealthy...wat make u think that the uncles like to wk 10 HOURS A DAY at a pay of $3.50 an hour....instead of enjoying their retirement or go out with fren.... It makes me wonder whether the spoilt brats are pue innocent or simply dumbo???
To the spoilt brats:U can be rich and u hv the rights to complain but are u really being treated unjust in ur situation? Its not that people is jealous of you thus ignore u or dun care bout ur problems etc maybe people have bigger problems to solve? Ur frens may not be bullying you, you cannot except to win in all situations. There are people better than u in certain things...perhaps brain or beauty but u already have so much that others dun have...u cannot have the whole world. Please be more compassionate to others less fortunate, u may not be able to express your compassion as u may not hv experience their suffering but the least you can do is not to judge them.
In whole, its good that you stick with people of your kind and together with your parents you can be sheltered from all the storms outside. But u will be force to get out of your comfort zone someday somehow, the world is cruel outside, there will be nobody to let u win, there will be unjust, people will bully you there and nobody is there to protect you...how r u going to survive???
Actually I dun hate spoilt brats...i just pity them....
Was thinking bout some of the spoilt brats that I know and it dawn to me why they are actually really good frens with each other and kinda in a so-so relationship with the majority even though they are really friendly etc???
The number 1 top reason is that they are a bunch of rich, worry-free kids that is so fortunate, having so much money to spend, nothing to do and nothing to worry about "real life" that they keep thinking that their little little miniture worries they have which is actually non-existance in the first place was the greatest thing in the world???
And guess what,they will make such a big fuss about their little mini non-existing problem to normal avg family people and actually expect you to sympathise with their.... wat should I call that???....mm... bullshit???...mmm that a gd phase to descibe their problems.
In case u guys and gals are wondering mm... wat bullshit I am talking about??? Here a few examples illustrated.
Case No 1:The Crybaby (dun actually need to cry but is the I am going to act innocent and everybody hv to let me win else...I cry!!!)
For example crying at every single moment when felt unjust (take note: is when the crybaby feel unjust not neccessary that there must be unjust done to him/ her. ) Situations applies to crying in front of big gp and public area. OK I MUST BE FAIR this CASE ONLY APPLIES to those who cry more than 10 times in public in front of a bunch of people in 2yrs???
Take my word there are people like tat...weird u may think but to them well its perfectly normal as they do it all the time just that U didnt manage to see them in the act ALL THE TIME.
There are actually more things in life to cry bout... think bout the poor people around in the third world countries..wat is our problems compared to them. Think bout disabled people, they dun cry in front of public when really mean people give them looks I just cant understand why those spoilt brats can cry in public wat kind of sympathy they hope to gain...arent they fortunate enough to appreciate life and why their parent never ever hint to them before that they are other more miserable people suffering out there in the world and that they are not able to shelter their kids forever???
Case No 2: The I take things for Granted Guy/ Gal
They have these complain:
1. Why do my parents want me to study why they keep pushing me on decison on my Degree/ Master/ PHD....I want my own life!!! I failed my exams....sobsob (PS: but i didnt study even I hv the perfect enviroment to do so.)
2. Why my parent dun give me more freedom, I wan more money to go shopping etc...I want a better car even though I am living in hostel (cause driving to school beats sitting the 5min shutter bus and I need to drive my frens around)
The only thing I have to say to them is to go look at the news dun just open your eyes open ur hearts as well. Think of those people who want to study but yet cant due to family problems. And because of these they continued to remained poor despite how hardworking and how hard they tried. (I understand that rich people may not need to study as their family may have enough fortune for them to spend in their life time fine...its their decision...but dun complain to others....if they want to throw away all the "xing fu" and the paved path their destiny hv given them fine just dun add it to others' misery.)
I have frens who really wish to go into uni but just do not hv enough money...having to support their family or being abandon by her parents... I used to hv a primary sch tuition kid that have to go help up at her parent food stall everyday even during the period of her psle...do she hv a choice...do her parent hv a choice... NO!!! They were too poor to hire a extra worker the $1000 they earned bearly meets their ends if they hire a worker for one month they will be in debt.
Talk about shopping??? They are worried bout food??? Yet is sad to see that spoilt brats are complaining bout shopping, better cars, freedom. Freedom???...my tuition kid dun even hv the freedom to study (btw in case u r thinking no money still tuition???? I gave her free tuition cause my mum noes her mum.)
Case No 3: The I am the most pathetic person in the world (Because I am a spoilt brat you hv to let me win....and btw I am really innocent in all decisions took so pls understand and dun bully me plsplspls???? Oh I am so INNOCENT ;) and you noe wat I even do charity work.... PS: btw I am perfect and if u are more perfect then me ok...I hate you.)
Somebody once told me "my atm and credit card (which by the way is her the parents bank) is cancel by my parents. What am I going to do? I am broke This is so unfair!" (Reason of cancel...well she got a new car and spent like thousands of dollars on yahoo auction.)
That was what I wanted to tell her:"Gal I am more broke then u ok u cant even handle ur shopping bills wats there to complain. I hv to handle my study loan which I have borrowed for my degree course and save up money for my master couse which will cause $32000... oh which by the way is cheaper then the price of your new car???"
And ya btw wat is the charity wk when he/ she even refuse to buy tissue from a cripple uncle or or dun even feel compassionate to the 70plus years old uncles working in Macdonald. (Stating the reason: Oh its good for them to wk they should contibute to society)
Excuse me!!! Mr and Miss rich and wealthy...wat make u think that the uncles like to wk 10 HOURS A DAY at a pay of $3.50 an hour....instead of enjoying their retirement or go out with fren.... It makes me wonder whether the spoilt brats are pue innocent or simply dumbo???
To the spoilt brats:U can be rich and u hv the rights to complain but are u really being treated unjust in ur situation? Its not that people is jealous of you thus ignore u or dun care bout ur problems etc maybe people have bigger problems to solve? Ur frens may not be bullying you, you cannot except to win in all situations. There are people better than u in certain things...perhaps brain or beauty but u already have so much that others dun have...u cannot have the whole world. Please be more compassionate to others less fortunate, u may not be able to express your compassion as u may not hv experience their suffering but the least you can do is not to judge them.
In whole, its good that you stick with people of your kind and together with your parents you can be sheltered from all the storms outside. But u will be force to get out of your comfort zone someday somehow, the world is cruel outside, there will be nobody to let u win, there will be unjust, people will bully you there and nobody is there to protect you...how r u going to survive???
Actually I dun hate spoilt brats...i just pity them....
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